When I write this I am listening to “Lost” by Michael Buble. I have an idea then, to write about “Lost”, “lose” or “Loss”.
Loss
Loss is sad, but this is something that we can’t avoid in our life’s journey. When we lose something, of course, heart or soul, we feel disappointed, hurt and even human at all, if we react strongly with this anger, crying, stress, loss of hope, protested to the will of God, to live with intention to terminate. Especially if we lose people who are closest, the most we love, and place of hope, a dream too (because I have had). It took a long time to wake up and realize a loss that I’ve experienced a few years ago, I learned, that loss is a process of getting (getting better) and vice versa. Get part of the loss.
A natural process of life experienced by all humans. Process that teaches us to see and accept reality, and the process to realize the nature of the self as a man who has a point in the life of an era perhaps I’m wrong, but at least it is a life experience that I’ve experienced. Although once I didn’t realize it, but the day, the more I realize that losing is the process of establishing a stronger spirit.
Loss can happen to anyone, not indiscriminately, the rich, the poor, the beautiful and even the beast ones. Because the loss is a process that must be passed in the wheel of life. Anything that is in us for life in this world nothing is eternal. therefore, we must learn to accept losing and letting go.
Perhaps the theory is easy to say, but at least with the experience of loss, we can learn to prepare yourself to be able to receive the soul elated. Loss can occur at any time in life and so we are still strong move when something is taken away from us because of tomorrow only God knows. We as humans can only plan and strive to realize, but all the will in God’s hands.
Well, although as I write this, I hope the people I love are always there for me, and will not leave me.
As our saying goes: “Gajah mati meninggalkan gading, harimau mati meninggalkan belang”, this means the memory and the traces it left behind was never really lost, but lives in the hearts and our memories. We can learn to love to lose it (though heavy). Losing makes a lot of lessons and new experiences for us, so we can welcome the process: accept ourselves. Said the wise man does not have anything except the experience of life and when we realized we’d never have any, it should not sink into prolonged grief when we lose.
Well, the loss can make us really strong, and able to face the reality that life is not eternal. And when we lose something, we will be able to learn and grow mature, and dispose of our ego. All the world belongs to God, when we lose something it means that God took it, we have no right to insult God.
*I wish I had the power….*
**trying to write in English, I apologize if there are errors in writing.
Merry. @march5,2012 (originally written)
